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Succes als bedreiging

26 November 2012
Door: Jeffrey Wijnberg

Hard werken loont. En wie ook nog met zijn inspanning en toewijding succes boekt, kan op applaus en promotie rekenen. Tenminste, zo wordt algemeen gedacht. De harde werkelijkheid is anders. De persoon met succes op zijn voorhoofd geschreven roept doorgaans zoveel jaloezie op, dat anderen niets liever zien dan dat hij ten onder gaat.

Dat is ook de reden waarom juist mislukkelingen mooie dingen stukmaken. In plaats van dat zij hun eigen prestaties verbeteren, halen zij liever een brave burger onderuit om zichzelf beter te voelen. Zo kan het gebeuren dat u vol goede moed aan een nieuwe klus begint en aanvankelijk door uw collega’s wordt aangemoedigd en ondersteund. De enthousiaste collegialiteit is, bij uw start, wel te verklaren: u weet nog zo weinig dat u de anderen nodig hebt om goed ingewerkt te raken; en zolang u een achterstand in kennis en ervaring hebt, kunnen uw collega’s dat wel waarderen. Tijdens de koffiepauze kunnen zij, in uw afwezigheid, nog met enige ontroering over u praten met teksten als ‘hij oogt wel onzeker, maar mooi dat hij er zo voor wil gaan’ of ‘sympathieke man, ook al heeft hij niet door waar het om gaat’. Vervolgens gooit u nog meer energie in uw werk en na een aantal maanden begint u een beetje op dreef te raken. Eerst zijn de resultaten bescheiden, maar al gauw is het eerste succes een feit. Zelfs het bedrijfsblad maakt er melding van. Tijdens uw eerste functioneringsgesprek is de sfeer gemoedelijk. Het hoofd van de afdeling geeft een positieve beoordeling, maar zegt op de valreep: punten van aandacht zijn 1) overmoed 2) een gebrek aan samenwerking 3) dominant gedrag tijdens werkbesprekingen. In plaats van dat u deze kritiek opvat als een voorbode van tegenwerking, doet u aan zelfreflectie en schaaft u aan uw sociale vaardigheden met het volgen van cursussen en een coachingstraject. Het resultaat is dat de successen zich aaneenrijgen, een gegeven dat maakt dat u steeds vaker voor spreekbeurten wordt gevraagd bij andere instellingen om uw werkwijze uit te leggen. Op het werk zelf merkt u gaandeweg een omslag in de houding van uw directe collega’s en nog meer bij de leidinggevenden. Tijdens vergaderingen worden uw vragen en opmerkingen genegeerd; en mensen die u anders altijd hartelijk groetten in het voorbijgaan, zijn druk in de weer met hun mobieltje als u een blik van verstandhouding probeert te vangen. Op een totaal onverwachts moment krijgt u thuis een brief met uw ontslag, met als reden: wegens bezuinigingen wordt uw functie opgeheven.

Hele succesvolle mensen starten uiteindelijk een eigen winkeltje, willen zij de saboteurs ontwijken. En dat is prima. Want terwijl de middelmaat aan kruisbestuiving doet, groeit er boven het maaiveld toch iets bijzonders.


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